By day, she's a cute, 'lil fluffy doggie sitting in the windowpane that everyone loves to hug & fuss over, and always eager to please.
However when her fur gets ruffled all too often, she transforms into a wild kitty who bites when her tail gets stepped on repetitively...
and goes out for night escapades once in a blue moon.
Blogs occasionally for the bite,
so that she can heal her pain.
I love nature, lavender & pretty blooms..
I love sweet shades of pink & purple,
with a passion for warm brown & red..
I love enjoying my comforting cup of hot cocoa / tea sans sugar / milk tea or coffee / durin' tête-à-tête sessions. =)
So do I love good food, sinfully decadent desserts, chi chi high teas, sippin' wine & cocktails in the evening breeze amid soothing, soulful jazz and sexy, funky disco house music... with good company, of coz...
Admittedly a creature of habit & comfort...
Simple things such as laughin' over a good movie to escape from mundane reality, sweatin' off the negative vibes unglamourously, pickin' up an engagin' read on a lazy day, with my dog restin' at my feet, havin' a warm cup of cocoa on a rainy day indoors, indulgin' excessively in creamy choc pralines & truffles, spendin' time outdoors with nature... lush greenery & aquamarine sea, taking snapshots of things and people for memories, meetin' happy & fluffy doggies...
make me happy too... some good ol' music / retail therapy for the soul helps too... =p
Sittin' atop the hill... watchin' the world pass by... the flutterin' leaves & flowers in the breeze... onward on the journey i continue... smellin' the freshness of the air... awaitin' the next scenery at the next hilltop in anticipation... which will take my breath away... & invigorate my senses...
Contrary to popular belief, I am not the owner of all the free time & luxury in the world. There's such a thing called opportunity cost & choices have to be made. Choices that seem easier to make than to live with in reality. Lookin' at just the surface is just being simply superficial.
In today's world, where boundaries between reality and illusions are blurred, genuine sincerity is hard to find.
There's a thin line between sanity and insanity.
Believes that the world not only exists in black and white, but also in different shades of greys....
Came across this article recently in Cleo and tot I'll share a lil on it... hmmz some of u might be interested in this... =p
Basically talkin' about men with emotional baggage, hence "man bags".... which falls into a few categories:
1) The divorced Expert's tip: Remind them of their attractiveness & try to eliminate their guilt by pointing out they are entitled to both happiness in life and a rewarding relationship.
2) The dad Expert's tip: Let him know that you are entitled to be treated in a certain way and clear boundaries between his children and you have to be negotiated, esp when he can tend to be too pandering to his kids. Get introduced to his kids, even as just a friend so that they will not feel like sabotaging the relationship.
3) The cheated on Expert's tip: Men like that fear history will repeat itself and it's often what people fear that they manifest. Some will behave in a way that lead to subsequent women cheating on them, leading to a snowball of suspicion. They need to examine the cause of the situation, rather than dwellin' on its effects.
4) The serial monogamist Expert's tip: People as such often avoid their most confronting emotions, such as anger & humiliation. They deny themselves a grieving process that their new partner witnesses in the midst of the euphoria of a burgeoning relationship. It's a contradictory message that has some women doubting their self-worth. They need to be aware of this and can counter this through counselling.
5) The less successful Expert's tip: Remove outdated stereotypes of a guy's primary role as a provider. Go dutch and let him pick up the odd tab. Establish equilibrium over time by lending support and affection through little gestures such as picking up the other person's drycleaning. It's all about expanding the role he sees for himself to more than just the money man.
since 28 September, 2008